Friday, September 18, 2009

Happy Benniversary---7 months

I love when he reaches up for me



and I love when he laughs and smiles







So sweet in Daddy's lap










Tonight we took Cheng-Yu to the Soddy Daisy homecoming football game for my 20 year reunion. It brought back exciting memories of last year when it was Scott's 20 year reunion and also the night we found out about Cheng-Yu. I will never forget that amazing night when we had our first glimpse of our son in a few small photographs. But better yet, we held him in our arms seven months ago today!!!




Thursday, September 17, 2009

When the Rain Comes











There is a Third Day song called "When the Rain Comes". It says... I can't stop the rain from falling down on you again. I can't stop the rain, but I will hold you 'til it goes away. It is a song that comforted me many times as I longed for what seemed impossible...a child. I would think about how God really could stop the rain, but the rain was required for my "growing season". He used it to change me. And although it seemed to last a long time, I always knew he was holding me in the storm.

The other day, I heard the sounds of a storm coming and I raced outside with Cheng-Yu. Under cover on the porch, we watched the rain. Well, he watched the rain and I watched him...watch the rain. I could hear that Third Day song playing in my head. I rejoiced in God's faithfulness. The song held new meaning as I held my son.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

God Shines Down



As we approach the one year anniversary of "First Sight" (referral) of Cheng-Yu, I am reminded of God's goodness, guidance & provision.  In the Spring of 2008, I felt this sense of urgency to find an agency that offered an international adoption program that didn't have a 2 or 3 year waiting period.  We had been on the list to adopt from Vietnam, but the doors were about to close on that program for awhile.  I believe God gave me that sense of urgency becasue our baby was on the way.  I spent my entire spring break researching agencies on the internet and talking with them on the phone.  I must have spent hours and hours searching, deliberating & praying.  I think I drove Scott crazy talking about all the options.  Just when I felt like I was running into another dead end, I started reading about the Taiwan program offered by Journeys of the Heart.  I felt a little apprehensive because our dealings with this agency would be strickly via phone and email becasue their offices were on the west coast.  I wasn't a hundred percent sure, but felt a little twinge of hope in my gut.  We applied to the program in May 2008, just 3 months prior to Cheng-Yu's birth.  Funny how I scrambled around in uncertainty while God had it all planned out.  God's provision.  I find myself amazed and ever so thankful for both answered and UNANSWERED prayers!  I am also thankful for the deep valleys that led us to Cheng-Yu.   

Study, Study, Study

It is fun to watch children study things in life.  From the moment we met Cheng-Yu, we notice that he was a "studier".  He is very interested in the way things work.  His hands are very fascinating to him and he continues to study them as he learns to use them in different ways. Watching Cheng-Yu, reminds me of just how incredible our God is.  He created it all!
Wow...look at this hand
I love my hands
Interesting, these shoes make my feet heavy in the swing!

First Day at Kindermusik

On August 20, Cheng-Yu went to his first class...Kindermusik.
Leaving the house
experimenting with egg shakers during the first few moments of class

Scout, Tori Bug & Baby Ben Cheng-Yu














































Tori Bug recently told me that she only loved Baby Ben "half". I guess that means that she loves him, but really isn't ready to take the plunge and give up her spot as the baby in the family. BUT today...we had a breakthrough. I caught Tori Bug giving some little girl at the Hamilton Place playground "the 3rd Degree". Apparently the little girl wanted to play with Baby Ben and Tori Bug was up in her face saying, "He is not your Baby Ben Cheng-Yu, He is MY Baby Cheng-Yu!!!" She had her arm around his neck, hugging him up tight. Yep, it was a breakthrough moment...she really does love her cousin.




















We had a great day today with Aunt Linda, Scout, Grams & Tori Bug.